by Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck have rekindled their romance nearly 20 years after calling off their first engagement. As Bennifer 2.0 goes public with PDA and paparazzi walks, fans worldwide have rejoiced at this early 2000s power couple finding their way back to each other.
While their red carpet moments dazzle and their couple style slays, some eagle-eyed fans noticed Jennifer often walks a step behind Ben during more casual outings. Speculation swirled about what this could mean until JLo addressed it herself on Live with Kelly and Ryan. She explained the simple reason behind her being positioned slightly behind her man—their height difference.
Jen clarified that with Ben standing at 6’3” and her at 5’6”, it’s just more comfortable to walk staggered so they can easily hold hands. She stressed that she doesn’t feel inferior and actually thinks it’s cute. As a longtime fan, I couldn’t agree more! Here’s why I think JLo walking a step behind Ben sometimes is a total non-issue:
First, it’s practical as Jen explained. With over half a foot between their heights, it just makes sense to adjust positions so PDA comes effortlessly. Jen is right to focus on what feels most natural for them as a couple. If she’s happy, us fans should be too.
Besides, couples coordinate walking arrangements to suit their needs all the time. When one person is faster, the other may trail behind a bit. If one has a shorter stride, the other accommodates. Jen and Ben navigating their height difference is no different.
Plus, Jen maintains her signature confident strut in any formation. She carries herself like the true superstar she is, leading or following. There’s no question Ben respects Jen as his equal in life and career.
This arrangement also allows Ben to be a traditional gentleman. He can gallantly open doors for Jen and protectively put his hand on the small of her back. It’s chivalrous for Ben to embrace his natural height advantage to care for his lady.
And let’s not forget—Jen is the ultimate feminist icon. She’s a successful businesswoman dominating across industries from music to movies to retail and beyond. Jen bows to no one!
Walking behind Ben from time to time doesn’t remotely take away from her feminism or independence. She’s stated it’s her choice for comfort. We should take the Queen’s word for it!
Besides, Jen and Ben have already defied the odds. They rekindled their romance years later after other marriages, kids, breakups and makeups. Their bond transcends petty relationship dynamics.
In fact, they’ve proven the depth of their love and maturity this time around. Both prioritize family amidst their reunion. Jen co-parents seamlessly with ex-husband Marc Anthony. And Ben maintains a strong relationship with Jennifer Garner, devoted to co-parenting their children.
This even led to speculation Jennifer Garner may have helped orchestrate Bennifer 2.0! The three have been spotted conversing at family events. Clearly, Ben and Jen put the kids first—walking arrangements are likely just pragmatic.
And if Jen did ever feel uncomfortable with the positioning, she’d speak up. This is a wise, experienced woman who knows her worth. If she chooses to walk behind Ben, it’s because it genuinely works for them. Jen spoke her truth on the matter, so speculation should stop.
At the end of the day, Jen is clearly blissful being with her love Ben again. From the way she gazes adoringly at him to her nonstop smiling, she’s on cloud nine. Her joy is palpable and she’s positively glowing.
That’s what matters most to Bennifer’s biggest fans like me. This couple overcame obstacles and found their way back to each other later in life. It’s a real-life rom-com happy ending. I don’t care if Jen walks slightly behind Ben as long as she’s fulfilled.
Jen and Ben don’t owe us any explanation. But Jen generously gave one anyway to shut down gossip. She feels comfortable walking a step behind her man and that’s her right. They’ve already endured public scrutiny before; now they deserve privacy and respect.
As a diehard fan, I’ll proudly defend Bennifer’s renewed love story. I’m just thrilled these soulmates reunited against all odds. I wish them nothing but happiness as they blend their families and build a future together.
Wherever they walk side by side or not, Jen and Ben have my full support. They’ve found true love and overcome obstacles to be together. After rooting for them years ago, I’m excited to champion Bennifer 2.0 today. JLo’s joy is what matters most to fans like me. And from all we can see, Ben Affleck makes her very happy. So whether she leads, follows or walks in sync, I say long live Bennifer!
